Do you wonder if you’ll ever finally make it?
Knowing that you have right mindset and strategies will alleviate that angst that’s building inside.
Here’s how you’re going to get from where you are now to where you ultimately want to be. Here’s how you’re going to get from “Point a” to “Point B.” Here’s an effective plan moving forward:
1. VISION. Imagine your “perfect” life scenario that you’ll experience at a specific time in the future. This is your vision. This symbolizes that you did everything humanly possible to finally become the man you’ve always wanted to be. You made it!
(Let me know if you want help with this process. I will share mine with you.)
2. IDENTITY. Step into the IDENTITY of the man who can and will make that vision happen. Once we see ourselves as this type of man, we will do everything we can to stay consistent with being that man. How would he walk, talk, breathe, act, respond, etc. every single day in both good times and bad?
(The identity that I have now is NOT the same identity I had when I became a six-time national champion drug-free bodybuilder. It’s much BIGGER. I can’t wait to share it with you!)
3. FAITH and TRUST. Have faith and trust that you’ll eventually maneuver your way through all of the ups and downs that go with ANY journey in life.
Have faith and trust that people (family, friends, clients, customers, etc.) will support your efforts and appreciate the tremendous value that you bring into their lives when you become effective enough at what you do.
Have faith and trust that people (family, friends, clients, customers, etc.) who do NOT support your efforts and appreciate the tremendous value you bring into their lives now eventually will:
✔️ Because it is the 100% TRUTH that you do provide them with tremendous value. Or, that it will soon be the truth when you get even better at what you do and finally “crack the code.”
✔️ Because you’re certain they’ve come around to seeing the TRUTH about you. It may take 10 minutes or up to 10 months. It may take one conversation or up to ten. It may take the “nice, caring” guy approach, the “tough, caring” guy approach, and/or several shades of grey in between. It doesn’t matter how long or what it takes to get there. You’re relentless because it’s the TRUTH they’ll eventually understand. It’s not a matter of “if” it’s just a matter of “when.” They’ll eventually recognize the truth because you’ve diligently worked on refining your influence and persuasion skills. You’ve adopted the motto: “The game is ALWAYS in play. It’s never over until YOU say it’s over!”
(Faith and trust was a HUGE challenge for me in the past. Getting past this was the biggest key to my personal MANformation. It made me great in some ways, believe it or not. It also held me back. I share all of this in my soon-to-be-released book, It’s A Matter Of Trust: Confessions of a Recovering Bodybuilder. Check out the free passages here.)
4. GET TO WORK. Get up every single day with your VISION in mind. Step into your new IDENTITY and fight like hell to make sure everything you think, do, and say is consistent with that new identity. You are that man who will eventually make his vision a reality. You must always “get to work” in good times and bad. Understand that every journey that you’ve gone on in the past had good times and bad times too. It may not seem that way now because you’ve successfully made it over to the other side. This journey will lead you there too. Have fun with it!
(I can’t even sleep 5 minutes past my scheduled wakeup time since I’ve adopted this process. I don’t want to mess anything up! Everything I do and every minute now matters! Let me know if you want some help developing this process for yourself.)
Skip La Cour
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